I first
prepared a sermon on this passage as a first-year theological student. In the subject “Introduction to Preaching”,
one assignment was to write a sermon based on one of a number of passages. I chose this passage and wrote a sermon that
was pretty forgettable – as forgettable as most sermons prepared by first-year
theological students. I don’t think I
ever preached that sermon … and just as well really.
I wrote my
second sermon on this passage while I was still a theological student, at this
point a second-year student. This time,
I prepared the sermon, not for a classroom assignment, but to preach in my
field education church. The sermon was a
dramatic monologue, telling the story of this passage from the perspective of
the elder brother. At the time, I
thought it was pretty good.
This sermon
became my “travelling sermon”, maybe even my “party piece”. For a number of years, whenever I was invited
to preach anywhere where I hadn’t preached before, I trotted this sermon out
(regardless of the lectionary).
The point I
made in this sermon, as I acted (overacted?) the part of the elder brother
struggling with his decision whether or not to join the party for his younger
brother was this: Through God’s grace,
we are a forgiven people. God
also calls us to be a forgiving people.
(And, of
course, to forgive someone does not mean that everything is
emotionally OK between yourself and the person who wronged you. Far from it.
It means that you seek to promote the well-being of the one who wronged
you, even if things will never be emotionally OK.)
A few years
later, when I was considering the same passage, I had recently read the book Poet
and Peasant by Kenneth Bailey.
Bailey was involved in research in villages around the Middle East,
telling the parables of Jesus to peasant farmers. After telling the story, Bailey asked the question “What would happen if someone in your
community did this?”
Bailey always
received the same reaction when he told this story, whatever the religion or
the culture of the people to whom he told it:
“This would never happen here.”
When he asked the villagers why it would never happen, some of the
frequent responses were:
·
A
son never asks his father to receive his inheritance early. This implies “I’m looking forward to your
death.” This would be unthinkable.
·
A
son would never refer to his brother as “this son of yours” when speaking to
his father. That phrase would implies
“He’s your son, but I’m not.” While a
parent may disown a child, a child would never disown a parent.
·
No
parent would ever beg their child to do anything, as the father did when he
tried to persuade the elder brother to join the celebration.
·
Neither
would a man of high status run in public, as the father did when he saw the
younger son returning.
The point I
made in the sermon was this : Even when
people do shockingly (and scandalously) hateful things, as both sons did in the
story, God’s grace enables us to do shockingly loving (and scandalously loving)
things, as the father did a number of times in the story.
Another
time was shortly after the death of Dr. Benjamin Spock, who wrote the classic
book Baby
and Child Care. Dr. Spock taught
generations of parents that it is better for children to love their parents
than it is to fear them, and that (as a result) it is no sign of weakness for parents
to show their love to their children.
I used the
example of Dr. Spock – alongside the image of the father in Jesus’ parable - as
a jumping-off point to say that our own views of God are often dependent on our
responses to the ways our parents raised us.
·
Those
who grew up with the care of warm, loving parents often find it easy to
appreciate the loving care of the Living God.
·
On
the other hand, those who perceive their parents as having been cruel, harsh,
selfish, erratic, or merely absent, may have problems coming to terms with a
loving God. Instead, they may find
themselves worshipping a god of wrath, … rejecting a god whom they see as
nonexistent, … or ignoring a god whom they regard as irrelevant to their lives.
(And, of
course, it may not be terribly helpful to use this as an excuse to play the
popular game of “My family’s weirder than your family.”)
Another
time, I preached completely off the cuff, for the first – and only – time in my
life. It was on one of my visits to
Bangladesh, visiting Christmas Bowl projects.
One Sunday
afternoon, I attended worship in a Baptist congregation in a poor neighbourhood
of Dhaka. I was told by the Bangladeshi
staff person who had brought me to the service that I’d be asked to give a brief
greeting to the congregation on behalf of the churches of Australia.
The service
was in Bengali. The Bangladeshi staffer
was translating parts of it for me. After
about half an hour or so, the staff bloke translated the minister saying, “And
now our Australian visitor will preach the sermon.”
I asked
“Are you sure he said ‘… preach the sermon?’”
“Yes.”
I thought
for a moment. I had no sermon with
me. The only Bibles I could see were in
Bengali. I had to say something. It had to be on a passage of scripture I knew
well enough to talk about off the cuff with no warning. I asked the minister to read the fifteenth
chapter of Luke’s gospel.
“The whole
chapter?” asked the minister.
“Yes.”
While the
minister read (in Bengali) the parables of the lost sheep, and the lost coin,
and then the one about the two lost sons, I thought about what I’d do.
I’d retell
the story of the man with two sons and hope that the congregation found there
was sufficient vitality in the story itself.
So, after the minister read the passage, I started to re-tell the
story. Periodically, after every few
sentences, the minister would translate my English into Bengali. That gave me sufficient time to re-gather my
thoughts to tell the next part of the story.
And, yes, in this ancient story that Jesus told, there was sufficient
vitality for the story itself to suffice for that congregation in Bangladesh.
And, today,
I still believe those things I learned on those previous occasions:
·
Yes,
our own views of God are often dependent on our responses to our parents.
·
Yes,
through God’s grace, we are a forgiven people. God also calls us to be a forgiving
people.
·
Yes,
even when people do shockingly hateful things to us, God’s grace enables us to
do shockingly loving things in return.
·
Yes,
there are some sermons written by first-year theological students that are
better left unpreached.
·
And,
yes, in this ancient story that Jesus told, there is still great vitality in
the story itself.